Archives for the month of: July, 2011

Q: I was asked today, “why don’t I have any art or my design work up on this blog”?

A: Because it’s all up at www.doctsect.com

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Everything I do with Life & Wellness Coaching is on this blog… it is also where I am moving on to in the future.

My brand-consulting & design-services are still available on a temporary basis, and my music will more than likely be on hiatus for a while although I have a new release coming out in September on Impulsive Habitat. I doubt I’ll go on a full vacation from them.. for 20 years of such an adventure has a tendency to rope me back in from time to time.. yet for now my focus has been coaching.

Thanks for question and hopefully that answered it. :)

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Namaste / Good Tidings
Cordell Klier

Since Your Playing The Game.

Truly creative people aren’t very predictable.
Truly entertaining people generally are.

The mark of a Master is one that creatively entertains and pulls out at its peak, leaving one to desire more.. Yet returns to, when one craves it most.

A Good Listener does none of this.
Listeners, are present.

Creative Entertainers, are transient.

Masters, know both these tricks of mind.
Masters, are.
Are, thru being.
Being, thru all things at all times of all places.

The Financier seeks them all from the shadows.
Patiently awaiting the profitability of all.
Gracefully reduces their fall into a gentle float.
Walks back into obscurity.

The Boss sets the tone & pace of..
… yet should never directly interact with any of them, lest come to ruin all good things.

For the Boss is the ever hungry fan seeking the need and attention of all.
For the Boss has but one skill: to point.
To make direction.

…our choice if to follow; for how long.

The Student of this takes heed and to-head of this.
Tries on all hats.
Defends that which isn’t accomplish-able.
Yearns for what which is incorporable.
Challenges the self.
Requires the ambition to leave when things get thick.
Yet sticks it out anyway.

Gain is relief.
Gain is doing.
Gain is non-doing.
Gain is goal as goal for the sake of goal.

Maintaining, is key.

Honestly speaking:
Goal is goal.
Gain and goal aren’t to be mistaken.
..such as alone-ness, and loneliness.

Simple this all seems.
Simple yet, not sweet; yet not sour.

Pleasure, is derivative.
An attitude.

However:
Suffering: strung along by the persistence of the future’s pull; the drag of self-reflection; the releasing cage.

Trust, is the measure of one’s release.
From all this.

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Namaste / Good Tidings
Cordell Klier

Do so by crossing your path first.

“You can not get sick enough, to heal one person on this planet. And you cannot get poor enough, to make one person wealthy on this planet. ..And you cannot get confused enough, to un-confuse one person on this planet. No amount of you feeling bad…” …will help anyone feel better.
– Wayne Dyer (from: The Power of Intention DVD)

…I added the last part after the quote because Wayne lectures like he thinks; kinda all over the place, and in his lecture never finished the full quote. For he went on to speak about our connections with Source. …But, ya know.. what a mind that man has. I know the above quote is also paraphrased from a few other ‘sources’, another words, said in a many other ways by many others, but regardless, Wayne is spot-on with this. And by spot-on I mean right-on; “Correct-a-mundo

When a personal-issue in your life becomes a problem, doesn’t it always seem like the best thing to do is reverse-engineer the problem in order to help us witness how you got to where you are now in the first place? To find out where ya went wrong? To identify what ya did, and how not to do those things again?

..I mean this seems on the on-set as being a logical course of action, right?

Yet, ain-it goofy.. ..in doing so, many tend to use this process as a way to beat themselves up and then get stuck in the past via self-blame, or.. worse still, create feelings of hostility, shame, and blame for another.

This is why I ask people to cross their own paths first before heading into the direction of their goals and dreams. Getting into the real you is beneficial. It’s one thing to start a new adventure when you’ve fleshed out all that lurks within the darkly-lit corners of our creepy and weird parts. But without identifying all that we can do in-spite of them, is going to lock us up with what it is we are trying to replace.

When someone wants something it is because there is a trickster in our under-developed strengths that is seeking it’s uncovering. And the universe loves to help rediscover our latent-powers by putting us in the hands of those that call us out on our own shenanigans. Those shenanigans being the laziness of the survival-conscious-affected-brain.

Path Of Water as they say… hmmm.. really… seems with a closer look that being liquid is more like being… let me explain….

Here’s the way out:

Survival-Consciousness will not solve your problem. Survival-Consciousness is another way of complicating matters thru “reactive” thinking/doing/feeling/being. AKA: victim-mode. AKA: this is happening “tooo” me. AKA: my only control is to deflect and/or absorb. …I ain’t got control! I need someone else to do it for me.

…eeegadz, this never works, does it?
No. It. Does. Not.

Cuz it squashes your personal power doesn’t it?
Sure. does.

…..water is powerful. and it’s time to redefine what really means to be “liquid”.

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If you intend for this problem to be solved you have to focus on “a” solution.
Not on the problem.

You’ve gotta look toward (and move toward) the feeling you intend, the effective course of actions you intend, and focus your ‘attention’ on what you ‘intended’ in the first place, `cept doing so in the “NOW”.

The caveat to this is, ..well.. this: To stand in the midst of a “want”, is to produce more “want”. – Cordell Klier

…or how about this quote:

“The law of flotation was not discovered by the contemplation of the sinking of things.”
– Thomas Troward

Consider using a different set of tools.
Consider seeking a new way of be-ing.

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Survival-Consciousness’s sole purpose is ‘to be at a level of “survival” in order to help you get “stronger-of-mind_&-body”. Survival-Consciousness actually has no way of ever seeing beyond it’s own drive to be within survival-mode. ::: Because doing anything, or thinking anything, about any situation that it can be connected with, is done so in order to “learn-better-growth-methods” (AKA: the work-out), because it does this for ‘you’ to learn how & when to “survive” most efficiently, quickly and with ease. All this, just in case a similar scenario pops-up that isn’t “created by you”.

Why?
Control.

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… But living life isn’t just about “survival”, is it? …if it was we’d not have an entertainment industry, or orgasms, would we?

At some point in life we have to become consciously aware of this; mature our actions as to stay outside of this level of “exercise”. So we can use the benefits of that exercise in order to live a richer and fuller more passionate, healthy, fun, loving & lovable, filled-with-love, life!

So, …
…what do we know about physical exercise? Without rest & healing.. how are we ever going to ENJOY living? We’ll stay sore all the time from all the lactic acids in our muscles, and instead of producing stronger muscles, we’ll begin to produce SCAR-TISSUE.

Example:
When was the last time you felt “free” and “at ease” when thinking about your “surviving”?

..Exactly.
To much survival and we got scar-tissue.

This is what it means when someone says they have lived a “hard-life”.

And where it may be fun for someone to retro-respond to a past survival-scare that has produced a scar, via telling a funny story during a martini night at Moscow On The Hill, it really makes little sense in consistently seeking out more survival-scares in order to “live well”, in order to tell tails of more woe, now does it?

No. It. Does. Not.

In order to stop from feeling “wet” you have to get out of the “water”. And I can assure you that Survival-Consciousness is about staying “wet”. Cuz that is its function.

So it’s time to get out of the “water” by telling a better story about our lives.

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Remember how easy it is for us to want to reverse-engineer (AKA: backtrack) in order to find our answers/way-out? Keep this in mind the next time you do anything that produces a result that didn’t quite “work-out”: What you track, expands. What you resist, persists. When you say, I don’t want “______”, guess what you are going to get?

Why?
Attention.

It’s on your mind.
You just spoke about it.
That means its in your brain, and on your mind.

Energy flows where your attention goes.
That’s the saying. That’s the truth.

If struggle is on your mind, you get struggle. If ease and peace are on your mind, ya get peace & ease. It’s that simple.

When you see someone struggling, you will not be helpful resonating/being on their level of woe. Or in their level for that matter.

It’s like gossip. When you sympathize you’ve opened the door to entering their world, but by no means are you to enter it. Doing so just fucks you up too. You must rise-above in order to stay “within” in order to be of any real help to anyone – including yourself!

Ever hear of the practice of “laying on of hands” or how about the popular practice of Reiki. Yes, the laying on of hands is used by “the crazies”.., Reiki on the other hand seems to be used by the not-so-crazies. But tell me that you don’t feel better when someone “takes your hand”, gives you a hug, rubs your shoulders, wipes your tears, “forehead to forehead”, helps you stand up, makes you a meal, gets you to work on time? ..I could go on-&-on with examples.

But isn’t the real purpose of life to be in a place where we are the producers? We are the supporters? We are at calm in order to help others stay calm? Healers first, by healing ourselves first?

I know that sounds conservative? But really isn’t it just physics? In order to push or pull something you need leverage. And you cannot gain leverage by standing in the exact spot as what is trying to be moved.

Am I right?

The picture above ^ of the hands… when you first looked at it.. which hand was the helping hand? The one on top. The comforting hand?

I know perception is a bitch. But what’s a real bitch is when we are being comforted, but that comfort isn’t what we were thinking we needed, got it anyway, and decided that it felt more like pain because someone was helping us trying to “clean the wound”, as they say.

Whether it’s energy work, or physical work, sometimes the practitioner gets into the places where our real power is unfortunately stuck, and knows there is a need to “give us a gentle push”. But since we aren’t 100% trusting of the practitioner, in congruence when of aware of the push on the get-go, because we are constantly hiding & protecting that power… so much so into NON-ACTION / R E S I S T A N C E / … that often we get startled, taken-back, and because that block is attached to a belief, we get defensive, sad, angry, annoyed, hostile, and/or really pissed off.

This is natural. And certainly a jolt to the protecting-system that is our survival consciousness.

In order to take someone’s hand in guiding them towards a healthy difference in their life or ventures, they have to have their hand out as a way to show us that they need a hand to begin with. But what’s in a hand-out if that person doesn’t assist themselves first by taking their own hands out of their own fear-filled pockets in support of themselves? Know what I mean? …Especially if they’ve already got perfectly good hands to begin with.

A fish?
.. Or being shown how to fish more effectively?

We all know the answer to this conundrum.
A wise choice is the teaching of fishing.. and it can feel like you are being an asshole by refusing to give the fish, but really it won’t help anyone.

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Support:
To act as an example; to teach thru example; to live exemplary.

This is what inspires people.
This is what evokes the assistance of others

As a Life & Wellness Coach I tend to walk a fine line between pusher and supporter. Trust is always the key. Trust in/from the helper and trust from/in the helpee. Friendships, working relationships, lovers, business partners are no different.

Trusting the structure-of-support first is a must before you’ll ever go to it in the first place. So be mindful of your choices in seeking support. Be mindful that your greatest support is you before anyone else. And we support ourselves via the stories we craft about ourselves.

– – S T O R I E S – -

Our stories are important. But more important is how we tell our stories. .. to ourselves, and to our companions.

Think of a story like you’d think of a train hauling cargo. Picture the tracks as the energy that is being directed by your mind via the production of your e-motions (Energy-In-Motion). Now consider the train-cars as the intentions that you are considering to “move-forward-with”. And consider the words you impress upon the subconscious as what is being hauled within those train-cars. …..When you state, “I don’t want to go at it alone”, and since the subconscious treats each word as something to be hauled by this train forward, … take a guess what’s being “moved-forward” by YOUR train?

The words you keep repeating in your story. I’m alone. I’m lonely. I’m poor. I’m still making progress. I’m hoping to get better. I’ve been feeling better for the last three months.. but I’m feeling sad now because….

Wouldn’t it make more sense to keep off the forward moving train-of-thought that which you’d like to leave behind?

Your subconscious doesn’t know any better, because it looks at each word like it is a physical object. And those physical objects all have an emotional correlate. And those correlates creates chemicals in the brain that cause functions in the body that produce movement and physical energy that not only works in-&-thru the physical body, but also flows out of it. And the people, places, & things around you harmonize or dis-harmonizes with you.

Repulsion & Attraction.

This is how “moving-on” & “leaving-behind”, & “letting-go”, & “for-giving” works.

In order to get what you intend: you (as in yourself; on your own) have to be of the mind-set that you are already surrounded by what it is you are trying to produce (within the now). …Doing so, by ridding yourself of what it is you want to move away from, by letting-go (purging). And thus to begin filling up your mind with what you are moving forward “WITH” in order to produce said, “intent”.

Attention on Intention is what I think Mr. Wayne Dyer was getting at in his lecture. And it’s certainly what I’m getting at here as well.

Being mindful of how you speak about your problems and desires is a “best-practice” as they say in the business world. So, staying aware of our words/symbols is a good idea when communicating. An idea that can make or break the flow of corroboration when seeking the advice or assistance from a friend, co-worker, or family member is how we communicate our intentions. For you may be carrying with you a disguised-problem within your intended solution.

Friends, family, your Life-Coach, coworkers, bosses, lovers, and pets will pick up on these disguised-attention-seekers – and if you don’t want them along for the ride (baggage) you have to throw them from the train.

I think we all really know what to do, it’s just that we don’t feel like we have the confidence to do so. But really, if we’ve got the confidence to fail more than once, at a great number of things, than I’d say we have more than enough confidence to actually get, do, be, feel, say, think, react, & live the way we ARE.

  • Life isn’t survival.
  • Life isn’t work.
  • Life isn’t money.
  • Life isn’t do.
  • Life isn’t struggling.
  • Life isn’t suffering.

All of these phrases are counter productive!

Stop thinking them!
Stop Mentioning them!
(irony.. I know…errrm…)
:)

Ya know that old saying, “getting a wrench stuck in the gears”..? Well it’s time to pull it out of the gears and start using it on your gears. Intelligent well structured plans will throw a wrench into your life every-time!

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again:
We get what we intend when we Stop Being a Tool and Start Using Our Tools.

Do all you can do now within your capabilities, and all that is outside your skill-sets and abilities the universe will send your way.

Hold faith in yourself.
This is how you truly help others.

If a person comes to me and says, “i can’t because I don’t want to”, guess how my universe is going to respond? ;)

But if a person comes to me and says, “I’m better at these things and am doing them to the best of my abilities, and I’d like to have another help me with these “______”‘s …chances are likely that if you stay persistent and faith-filled the universe will rush in and come to truly help you.

“Chance favors the connected mind”.
– Steven Johnson

Connections favor those providing worth.
Be worthy in mind, heart, soul, and body, thru doing & non-doing and you’ll be able to help anyone that crosses-your-path.

Cross your own path first.
If you can’t handle your own waters, chances are no one else will either.
When you can’t handle the waters your in, give me a call, maybe I can help, … just be mindful as to not drown your coach in the process …giggle.

….as per usual.. long-winded but hopefully helpful.

Namaste /Good Tidings
Cordell Klier

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….we already know the answers.., for they are embedded within the questions that we know to ask ourselves.

The real questions exist outside of the realm of our knowing.
And when you run into difficulty, it is sometimes best to ask for guidance, seek mentor-ship, or do some research & development.

“Seek and you shall find…”

Everything is already within you – R&D is just our human way of unlocking the door.

“…knock, and it is opened unto you.”

When meditating on enlightenment, running into the door of enlightenment can be a profound experience. Without being sure how to get passed it we tend to get confused and uneasy.

A word of advice: consider focusing on a doorway, and not a door.
…running into a doorway hurts & gets annoying after a while. Doorways on the other-hand make a heck of a lot more sense when trying to “get-with-it”.

Food for thought.

Namaste / Good Tidings
Cordell Klier

Joy.

When.

We.

“are”: continuity of the whole.

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mind or brain.
where is mind?
consciousness is where?

energy is communication.
all organs communicate.
all cells communicate.
attention.
intention.
execution of intent.
as within produces without and intermixes with other ‘withins’ co-creating ‘withouts’.

body is mind.
mind is body.
—————- conjunctive new term needed?

would this help?

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human idea of world.
world as world-without-interpretation.
as.. within-interpretation.

same?
unique?
personal?
collectively quantifiable?
…experience.

body awareness = form identification.
..does this include the subtle? the causal? the causes?

is the blue sky in the sky?
aren’t you in the blue sky – aren’t you in the planet?

are you SURE you are ON the planet?
Surface?

aren’t you the planet?

…..electromagnetic currents of energy from all things.. interconnecting,
harmony, disharmony, frequencies, light, sound, feeling …

awareness of / connection to

your life?
or Life-System?

Morphic Field.

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Namaste / Good Tidings
Cordell Klier

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looking for it, but not experiencing it.
because in finding it, filing it away for another day.

so much to experience.. don’t want to miss any.
pile it all in, bewildered by long lists of choice.

when is the right time to enjoy?
the correct time for peace?

the spirit and magic of today.
now.

Namaste / Good Tidings
Cordell Klier

Failing to receive something desired?

Getting pissed about it?

Persistence seemingly not getting it done?

It’s because the universe is hoping to keep that spot open to/in you – within you and your life – so you can receive something more suited to the authentic you that is even better then your short-sighted ego can even calculate to even know-to-know of.

Sound like a bunch of new age hog-wash?
Think again.

Often our desires spring forth from unexamined lack-based decisions during our childhood (or young adult lives) amid times when in which “we didn’t know any better”. To put it another way: we were still in the process of learning, and tended to react to our feelings of lack (aka – not receiving our wants) as if we were considered ‘unworthy or receiving’.

Ya see, as kids we know that we are going to get everything we’ve wanted instinctively. Because we know that is why we came here to begin with. But what we didn’t know, was that a lot of what we want carried certain responsibilities… responsibilities that require a certain arch of maturity and resilience backed-knowledge that is required during handling.. That is to say.., so our shit don’t get “blown-up, cracked, broken, burnt down, cut off, tortured, unkept, destroyed, or worse – IGNORED when the next new bright-shiny-object entering our tiny frames-of-reference”.

Some of us threw temper tantrums. Some others withdrew and started to brew resentments. While yet others persisted in an annoying persistence of asking over and over again hoping that eventually we would win the battle; as if it was a battle of wills. (think 2 year old, 14 years, 21 year olds, 35 year olds, 55 year olds – get the picture?)

When we are young (or young-minded) not getting a candy bar is like death. Not getting the toy is like hell. Not getting the car as a teenager is frustrating.. or worse, getting the piece of crap “beater” is down-right embarrassing…… or how about this…, not getting laid is destroying your self esteem socially??

Discouraged, we buried these desires and moved onward into the rest of our lives. Yet, unknown to our waking minds these desires ever still lingering in our subconscious via our ego, hiding just under a few layers, awaiting for a similar opportunity to arise so it can secretly come forth OUT OF NO WHERE (& under a new name) with a barrage of unseen/unexpected internal motivations within this seemingly similar scenario in order to have a-go at it again – but this time WIN!

For those of us who’ve dealt with this or someone going thru this, it is just as exhausting as reading that last sentence.. I apologize. Luckily once it’s over we can make a good laugh at it and move on.

Or how about this scene:
..ever get into a fight with a lover only to find that the actual desire to fight in the first place was really about something & someone else from our pasts?

Almost as if the past was printed on a sheet of clear transparency paper, held up by our mind’s eye at gun point by our disrespected egos, used to obscure the face/being of our current lover with an image of your past rejection as a justification to finally release the pent-up rage thru this seemingly similar situation today?? …only to find that you just started an argument that has nothing to do with the NOW at all? ..all the while your lover looks frustrated, is sad, thrown-off, bewildered, and more importantly thinking you’re a little nuts?

If not, you’re lucky.
If so, you know exactly what I’m getting at.

I’ve been at both sides of this ego-folly.. and I gotta tell ya, frankly it sucks! Either dishing it up, or getting it spoon-fed at mach speed while being blind-sided just plain sucks…

Luckily for all of us, we love our partners… which is probably why our egos chose this person to bring this up unexpectedly… the ego, while it is a self-centered jack-ass at times when being usurped by the pain-body, at least the ego knows it’s own limits, doesn’t want to end the relationship, and is only using the now as what I call “re-creation-trust-theatre-de-macabre”… I’ll post more about this in another post when I have more time…

More simply put, our internal drives to often get “something” in our adult lives that is built on a very similar premise resembling the past in order to grow. ..but not just grow, but grow happier.

We tend want something we think we can’t have. Either because as kids we never got it, weren’t allowed to have it, didn’t know what we had and accidentally lost it/broke it via neglect or inexperience, or.. just stood there in stewing in vehement jealousy towards those that seemingly “got everything”.

Thankfully, as adults we know that no one ever gets everything when we are young. This, as we find out later in life, thru maturity, we realize to be one of the greatest secretive blessings Source has ever given the Earth.

That being: Time.

We are truly in abundance at all times, although as young people we didn’t know this. Meaning: everything has been taken good care of long before you got here. But if you are just figuring this out now, you might be a bit peeved and feel duped, but don’t fret. This is a good thing. If you can take a few days to cool off, hopefully & gracefully you will begin laughing a big Buddha laugh of relief. Probably never being taught to know this as a kid was the best thing ever. Especially if you were a smart-one.

Why?
..cuz you would have taken advantage of it.

I did… ..you get to learn from my goof, and I can assure you that not a lot of good comes of it for anyone.

Whether we know it or not we are already WHOLE in all of our endeavors at the onset. Because, SOURCE is helping all of us to be even greater then we are already in our current greatness thus far; Doing so, as to provide (within-and-for-us) that which is coming toward us as we speak with gracious certainty in respect of that which is what we are.

And why wouldn’t existence do this?
What other point could there be to life?

Progressing out of an orderly sequence of growth into something “NEW”– to paraphrase Thomas Troward.

If this is “new” to you, here’s a road map:

  • Know-of before you can do.
  • Do before you can be.
  • Be before you are.
  • ..And once you are,………you are now prepared to receive.
  • Receive, and now, maintain.

Sounds simple huh?
Well, I know… but it is.
Bummer how life aches for it to be a different way. Yet, we all know the consequences when things are done in a different way. Case in point: The A-Bomb; Losing a perfect lover in our teenage years do to stupidity; …ya get the point right?

Ask yourself this: What would life be like to receive the most comfortable chair in the universe yet not-knowing how unique & special it is only to use it as a shelf for your DVD collection?

..think about that… know anyone who does this sorta thing? Consider them your greatest teacher.

Today, act in-spite of short-sighted desires, received or not, because there is something coming to you that is far greater than your ego knows to know of. For what is about to arrive has been harnessing an unlimited scope of benevolent assistance that will allow you and your lifestyle to be truly exceptional beyond your wildest & most calculated of plans. Because! you are already truly exceptional. Because! you needn’t ever to worry ever again. Because! you will always receive that which is truly exceptional because you already are truly exceptional.

Begin today.

Show the Source Created Universe that now is the time by doing as if you already have what it is you seek by exposing THE ALL THAT YOU ARE as being respectful of the natural process of abundance, receiving, and attend-able proportion, by providing more of the most you can know-to-know by offering it to someone else.

[place record scratch here]

WHAT!?

…giggle…….Sounds paradoxical huh?
Luckily for us it’s not.

In order to throw a ball forward we need the created inertial of “a throw”. And to throw great distances we need to pull our arms back first in order to launch the ball forward. Think dynamo. Liken playing catch to digging into your own life first then pulling out what you already have to provide for anything. Cuz strangely enough doing so creates a vacuum.

[To get a better idea of how this works, try doing this under water. It will show ya what happens to the waves of energy all around us when we move and do anything in life that our 5 senses tend not to be aware of on the onset of things. The water in front of us pulls towards us when our arms go back for the wind-up. Then, as the arm moves forward the water behind us swirls forward towards are back. Life in the AIR is now different – and air is comprised of energy…I think ya get the picture]

And what happens in a vacuum? In science, they say the universe abhors a vacuum… So basically put, in regards to getting what you want: the universe fills/wills it in with what ever is closest. Or in this case what ever you have closest within your concentrated emotionally-backed-dominating-thoughts. – – – >> If you’ve got lack on the brain, the mind calls this up from you first to fill the …what?….that’s correct folks – THE VOID.

Sometimes in order to fill our own voids we have to fill a void.
Aka – we get what we give.

Either thru services, products, experience, agility, thinking, repose, wisdom, guidance, or even the biggest damn hug you can muster, doing so is the ultimate form of communication all that is around you. A “communication” that never gets ignored.

…Many like to pretend this isn’t physics. That it is some form of pre-rational pseudo-science based in illusory magic of old.. Ahem… Think again.

Thanks to the rational-age, we now know that some magically defined “happenings” are in scientific fact, we just use modern terms. Post-rational can get confused with pre-rational if you don’t know that experience is the missing link.

When we experience without knowledge of the physical world. We create pre-rational descriptions. Then thru our exploration we gain knowledge that COURSE-CORRECTS the mistaken speculations of the pre-rational efforts. Ironically the pre-rational is the path to the rational… lucky for us, the path beyond the limitations of “ration”ality is what many left-&-right-brained “experienced” thinker-doers have coined as post-rational.

And guess what kids?

Some magic is real. We just call it by a new name now.
Dame Sifference. (spoonerism: Same Difference)

..As I attest to all my clients, “somethings last”. “Some-things” exist as a state of mythology, thru a story or a movie, via heroes and most importantly clichés, but still very relevant-&-real. So with that, here’s this:

Fill up your all with all that you are, for as your cup-runneth-over, trust there always will be more of you to catch it.

This is what is called: course-corrective action. You are correcting your course of doing by fully witnessing what it is you can do, to “do”.

Show the universe that you can handle it, by handling what you already have, to the best of your ability! Because you aren’t just a slice of the universe – you are the universe. Apple pie pieces are still apple pie!

I fucking guarantee you will get more of what you ARE.

This is fundamental space-time stuff here. Nothing confusing. We do it all the time, but we rarely know-to-know that we intuitively do this 24/7.

Still don’t believe me? – consider your lungs or your heart.

Movement, progression, forward-ness, all states causal via “dynamism”.
Vacuum states.

We uncover what is new by expanding our limits then contracting them. We expand our limits by stretching. We stretch by filling. ….We get full by filling up another.

Cliché = PLAYING CATCH!

Strange and mysterious are we `eh?!

Kids love playing catch!

The more ground we cover the more we know to become. And then it is about respecting the ground we covered; harmoniously sustaining and nurturing it as it will now sustain and nurture you. The playing field. As we aren’t taught this you can see why some places look like shit. But as adults we are this at all times, unaware or fully conscious – doesn’t matter / cuz everything “matters”. And matters thru your doing & non-doing.

Thoughts become things when we get a clear sight on our goals, handle our ego generated obstacles with grace & persistence by respecting the trail (or carving the trail) thru becoming what we are trying-to-get thru playing-what-we-want in order to be-what-we-are.

The confusion is that we think ‘respect and trust‘ are somehow non scientific! Get over it, cuz it isn’t truth. Experience via doing tells you this, thinking about doing instead of doing – does not!

We all know the biological effects of helping someone, hugging someone, complimenting someone, kissing someone, trusting someone. The human brain are hard-wired for benevolent-altruism – otherwise we wouldn’t have all the good feeling chemicals in our brains being produced when we help out a stranger, now would we.

So get excited! Trust in everything, cuz trust is EVERYTHING.
Help another and you will get help. It’s a universal law.
Just know, that the help you receive in return is going to be gotten of what is closest to you. And what is closest to you is whatever your dominant focus is focused on.

Increment by increment we seemingly move. Yet experienced mathematicians say we are stationary increments of increments ad-infinitum and that all movement is illusory.

Lucky for us, Source provided all of us with a wormhole:

Kindness.
[look at the word a few more times.. anyone else here see a mirror?]

Namaste / Good Tidings
Cordell Klier

The title of this post is kind of an inside thing.

Today is about being authentic.
Knowing we aren’t someone else’s idea of perfect.

You’d think that being yourself 100% would be the easiest thing to do in life. Ya know, standing up and asking out the cute guy. Standing up for yourself at your job. Telling the waitress how cold the tilapia is and that it is freaking you out. Yet we all know – no matter our age – that the pressures of life, love, our occupations, and the fowls of society can sometimes strip-off a few layers of integrity in order to get us thru the hour. We don’t wanna with all of our hearts, and yet we do it anyway.

– The dress code may may be black tie, but today we are bright green.
Be bright green. Let them take it as a statement, even though it isn’t.

– The songs maybe about lost love, but today we are in love.
Be in love, pester yourself not with the jealousy of another.

– The voice maybe screaming damnation is on high with vengeance, but we are enjoying the summer day. Be grateful for your martini and your friends, let the fundamentalist scurry away in horror.

Appeasing the sensibilities of the frustrated & rigid at the expense of yourself isn’t going to help anyone. Not even in the short turn.
Not them. Not you. …naught anyone.

Today, consider rising above the expectations of others. Do so by not lowering yourself into their requirements. Obligation and the dreadful “ought-to” will not make the day brighter for them no matter what you do when you aren’t in the spirit of the occasion.

– The club may be filled with darksider punks & emo kids, but wear the white suit anyway.

– The job may be losing it’s marbles over a spreadsheet, yet go out to lunch anyway.

– …Even your own thoughts maybe annoyed and gregariously spouting, “God is a bullshit concept and it’s all a lie, you are totally being idiotic for falling for this crap – you know better, come on man!”, ….and yet, … something within you feels that today, for some reason-or-another, “ya, I know.. I get it, …but it just fits better knowing she’s there, that she may actually exist…. today it just feels healthier, ..scientifically unprovable or not”. So let her be there.

There’s always tomorrow. There’s always tonight. There’s always peace somewhere. There’s always a choice.

So choose from what you’re feeling with your heart. The center of your chest. Go with your gut. Choose from your soul. …Choose from your vagina! …Choose from what ever feels the best.

Follow your bliss.
I mean.. ya can’t please everyone.

More importantly, would you really want to?

Sometimes the bright green tie makes the dinner engagement better; the spreadsheet is still going to be there in an hour; and often skeptics are skeptical of themselves.. so what’s the harm in believing in a deity for a few moments??

Don’t be tricked into thinking you are somehow having to be irreverently bold just to be you – no matter how contradictory it may seem to others. heck for that matter there’s no sense in feeling even wrong, just because something within you is moving in a different direction then that which is surrounding you. You’re not an asshole no matter what they think, feel, or say.

Sometimes our bodies choose. Sometimes our soul chooses. Sometimes it’s our hearts that have the right of way. Give yourself a break. Cut yourself some slack.

A Great book on this subject also has a great title, I highly recommend it:

What You Think of Me is None of My Business.” It’s by Terry Cole-Whittaker.

I dig this book. It cuts right to the heart of the matter.

Namaste / Good Tidings
Cordell Klier

Before the plan can take shape ya gotta flesh out the “why”.

…why?

Why do ya think…

How many people ask why but never think to ask themselves, “why not”?

You, your soul, your body, universal mind, your breathing, your brain.. they have agendas. Multiple agendas. Often ‘mind’ and ‘the organ called brain’ have opposing interests.

Sometimes the soul and our financial income can have opposing forces calling them to do radically different activities, strangely assisting in an identical outcome.

How does that work, you might be askin’?

Remember in basic math, some teachers wanna see the work written out, while other teachers (namely your history teacher) just give you a calculator? That’s what we are dealing with here: Inconsistencies of operation.

Funny too this being done reinforcing young brains to seek for a consistent outcome of learning while hoping to promote effective “doing”. …??

So what can ya do?
Well for starters, when the brain starts asking you ‘why’, ask it back ‘why not’? When the brain starts in with all the reasons as to ‘why not do something‘, ask it ‘why’?

This works every time.

It’s like in meditating. When you try to clear out your mind, suddenly as if a vacuum is created and a million things rush into your “self”, they instantly (in unison I might add) begin chattering away at you. So much for “inner-peace-n-quiet” ‘eh?

Yet, if to do what seems like the reverse, the second you try to think of every-thing at once, your mind goes b l a n k . Suddenly Silence.

Doesn’t it seem like the brain has a freeloader doing everything in paradox?

Artists call it “resistance”.

Here is a few more examples:

  • Christian’s & Muslim’s call it ‘the satan’ or ‘the adversary’.
  • Satanist’s call it ‘the beast or the liar’.
  • Atheist’s call it ‘freaking annoying’.
  • Don Miguel Ruiz calls it ‘the voice of knowledge’.
  • Wayne Dyer calls it “ego”(edging god out)”.

… I just call it like I see it:
Here it is in long-form..

A mentally constructed archetype rooted in a probable predisposed genetically promulgated belief-pattern reinforced thru the seeking out of situations that promote the struggling of two counter-balanced dominating counter-intentions..

..Confused yet?

..but wait!.. there’s more..

..often times backed by the stress-brain’s need to “act/be afraid”; Afraid, because the body – to a certain extent – is a hormone/endocrine drug addict that relies on certain chemicals concocted by the brain’s “doing/non-doing” in order to get its daily fix of.. adrenaline & cortisol, etc.. Because if the stress-brain can be frightened just long-enough, then it has ‘a job’, and thru that ‘job’ the brain – when tricked into sensing itself into POSSIBLY becoming in-active – key word being possibly – now has a sense of “worthy-use”. …..ALL THIS.. because the brain’s sole purpose is to keep you ALIVE. In extreme cases the brain gets so confused that it thinks death is the only way to live. ..luckily this .. for another post later.. but for the sense of this post – Stress Stops HGH = HUMAN GROWTH HORMONE!

Funny how our brains are secretly obsessed with death. As if it is embarrassed of this, so it hit hides this within a complexity of layers.

Since the brain pretends that it is “all of you”, and if we aren’t taught to question this “flat-earth-response” to consciousness-identification via body-parts only, then there seems to be a sense of “doing” even when not doing a damn thing.

…Which we all know, that if we take a second to do our long-hand-math here, that…, thru writing out the PROCESS, .. we gain clarity thru discovery, …we strangely then get creative to seek new layers of & for problem solving in general, …test our inner competency thru experiments like sex, relationships, swimming, thai food, and laughter, ..thus! …(take a breath).. becoming more acquainted with the necessary actions steps that lead us to the inevitable “SOLUTION”: that solution = living well.


Why?
How?
Because a problem isn’t a problem, unless you make it a problem. And guess what, …….problems get solved!

A brain would never create a problem it couldn’t solve.

Consider resistance like this: creating a problem that can be solved for the satisfaction of solving a problem in order to gain the satisfaction of having controlled something… especially if since it seems to have been unable to solve certain other issues/problems/challenges/head-aches in life that seem beyond it’s scope of KNOWLEDGE.

So the big question is, who is this archetype? Who is tricking the brain into doing this?

Is it the body? .. sometimes.
Is it stuff our parents / teachers / friends / lovers / bosses / leaders have crammed down our throats? .. sometimes.
Is it our spiritual heroes / political mentors…. sometimes.

Now, if you’re wondering “is it intentional”? Unfortunately those “lacking the wake-up call of consciousness” can sometimes do this seemingly intentionally. Yet really, if someone isn’t acting via their awareness, how can they be 100% accountable for their actions? This isn’t an excuse least that of a total frikkin bummer for all those around them.

Frankly.. I too think describing “ego” in anyway, is falling short. For it is far too simple to just call it any ‘thing’ any ‘way’. Seems like this “resistance” wants to interact with you and pretends to be “not you” when you screw-up (judge), but is “you” when you’ve screwed-up (victim). It seems lost, lonely, tired, frustrated, scared, nervous, confused, angry, cheated, lied to, tricked, offended, and for the most part never seems to “have enough time, sex, or money”. …see what I’m getting at?

Mental Inaction.

Simply put… the brain loves to eat.
And what does the brain eat?
Knowledge.
And what does knowledge produce?
Physical Action.
Action produces experiences which can lead to wisdom.
..& wisdom produces…. (drum-roll please *dtdtdtdtdtdtdtdt*)
Contentment.

Life is a process.
So it’s time to involve the brain back into that process.
..time too, to remember that the head is just another appendage; albeit an important one.

…..Today, consider taking a few moments to learn something new, and not something knew. Stretch from your comfort zone. Grab a book on financing. How about something on day trading. Go to the punk record store and try your hand at something crusty. Try a new Lebanese restaurant. ..Hell, hit up Wikipedia to brows a few interested tidbits connected to bioluminescence. If at work, consider asking your boss for a new task slightly out of your skill-set.

Challenge yourself before you get challenged by your stress brain.
Your brain will love you for it – that’s “WHY”.

All good plans are built on the effective knowledge gained thru the courageous action of persistent learning via an inspired purpose causing all enthusiastic & initiating/motivating sparks to render us free from all worry so as to allow a lifetime of gracious be-ing & the exponential expression of growth from inner-wisdom that sustains actualized harmonic outer-peace.

..and you can f’n quote me on that.

Namaste / Good Tidings
Cordell Klier

Do you believe that worry is on your side? Do you know how it is helping you? Do you know what it is / what it is really doing to you?

  • Going in for surgery – how does worry help you?
  • Just gave up at your job and you boss is mad at you – how does worry help you?
  • Thinking about what’s going on now and how it seems so much like the past – how does worry help you?
  • Forging into a new territory with career – how does worry help you?
  • Creating a new online dating profile – how does worry help you?

..I can think of a million bullshit reasons why “worry” pretends to be helping us. The only thing about worry that seems motivating is, that it is fucking annoying, and who the hell wants to be around something annoying?

Can you sense the bitterness in my tone. ..giggle.. maybe it’s all the swear words.

Let’s get honest for a moment. Worry isn’t helping you. It seems convincing. It may even seem natural. But it’s really just an out-dated / now-obsolete way of feeling that has tricked you into believing that it is a form of action. “as long as I’m worrying, at least I’m working something out in my head”… total crock of shit.

Worry is a pest and it’s time to take out that bottle of raid, spray it down and squash it into a bazillion pieces, ..grab a paper towel and toss it in the garbage. It belongs there with it’s buddies, “guilt”, “resentment”, “jealousy”, & it’s sister “shame”.

All of these are false. Lies. Trickery. Nonsense. And this is the moment where you look these bastards in the eye and laugh at them, take back what they stole from you. AKA: all the moments in your life where you knew you were ok, but those jerks wouldn’t leave your thinking alone.

How much energy in life has worry zapped from you? How much mental dexterity has been tripped up by this prankster? Time to take this ridiculous worry-costume off and show that sexy-birthday-suit-of-courage to every venture you partake in.

Worry is going to fuck you up every time if you let it in.
So I say, stand up for yourself! Know that it is a trick, and you are too bright to fall for it’s crap ever again. Rise up within yourself and kick this little worthless bastard to the curb.

  • Going in for surgery – how does courage help you?
  • Just gave up at your job and you boss is mad at you – how does courage help you?
  • Thinking about what’s going on now and how it seems so much like the past – how does courage help you?
  • Forging into a new territory with career – how does courage help you?
  • Creating a new online dating profile – how does courage help you?

It’s time to get real.
You are not to be tricked into thinking that worry is a need ever again.
For you are courage! And you can do anything!

Namaste / Good Tidings
Cordell Klier